Oh, I know what you mean. It's certainly not a good situation and that colors perceptions just a touch.

I get the feedback thing. I'm like that a lot with new things. I'm generally pretty horrible about giving feedback but I do try to catch the stuff that's on my flist when I have time.

As for suggestions, I'm unclear as to what you're looking for exactly, but am totally game to help in any way if you need it. I've also been told I'm a fairly good cheerleader as well ;)